It might be weird to
read, but when cancer strikes both men and women have to face certain
situations that they have never expected in their lives. This is the story of a
man who was struck by the deadly form of skin cancer i.e. Melanoma. Melanoma
affects the inner layers of skin and spreads swiftly. He shared few of the
thoughts crossing his head at that point of time with his skin doctor
when he started with his chemo. Many of his friends moved away from him as if
they were never too closed to him. He had no lack of friends and he used to
tell everything very fondly about his friendly.
The doctor was asked
many questions but one was seriously something like searching! He asked if the
same situation is faced by his female patients’ too. It made the doctor rethink
and emphatically he replied ‘Yes’. Cancer affects men and women in
similar ways. Challenge of coping with cancer illness, maintaining
relationships and side effects of treatment are same for all. In a way, it taught
doctor of how to be a friend even when one of your close ones struck by cancer.
When he discovered the
cancer diagnosis and mole check reports, he was totally shocked and felt
like having someone to share whatever running in his mind at that time. He
texted his friends and words spread like fire. One of the
significant things that you can do for a cancer patient is be there
physically and emotionally with your entire self. Supporting him with the
initial discovery about the cancer is not at all helping. Though the person is
safely out of Melanoma now and seeing him well, the friends tried
to enter is life again but he didn’t allow. Show human communion and visible
sympathy, it may even help them or encourage them to bear the same. Don’t tell
them about the people who have already experienced the cancer and got rid of it
after some years, instead listen to them on how they can have a control back in
their lives.
| Visit @ http://www.skincancerclinic.net.au/ |
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